It is now a common thing for most ladies to say that they can’t date broke guy while there are some who don’t care about the financial aspect.
A broke guy is someone he doesn’t have a job at the moment or that he’s not financial buoyant to take care of himself properly.
This makes it hard for such guy to be able to take care of a girl but if you find yourself falling for a guy like this then you need to know the below things:
1. Be specific
You cannot move on with this kind of relationship due to the half-baked convictions. That’s not gonna be possible.
You need to be pretty sure that this is what you want, and that you are prepared for whatever comes out of it.
People – friends and family – will question your decision to do this and if your stand isn’t solid enough, you might waver.
You also need to be really sure of the kind of guy you’re about to date.
Frankly, while it is admirable that you don’t care about his financial status at the moment, you still need to be sure of his drive and desire to not be broke for too long.
What’s his attitude towards getting his finances right?
It’d be catastrophic to say you love someone who is broke now and sits on his behind without plan and effort to break free from his present situation.
Inconveniences will be coming up and likewise there’ll also be sacrifices.
You know those stuff that your ex boyfriend usually love to do for you because he could afford them ?
Sorry, this new man won’t be able to meet up with that since he is not capable enough.
You know those great, cute gifts your friends get from their boyfriends and post on Instagram?
Sorry sister, you might not be able to post them for a while.
And hey, you might also have to share some of your salary with him while he’s still waiting to find his feet.
It comes with the territory.
3. The sex is [always] on target
Ok. It’s not like there is empirical evidence or some stat to back up this assertion, but word on the streets support it.
It is believed that broke guys somehow have mad sex skills and often try to make up for their financial weakness with sexual prowess.
It is a belief that broke guys usually perform well in bed, this is because they try to make up for their financial weakness with sexual prowess.
4. It could end in disaster
For the fact that you stood by a man when he is broke is not assurance that he will love you forever.
Life is not balance and it’s cruel and sad but that is how horrible life can be.
You could run all the supportive girlfriend scheme, you could be loyal and faithful and prayerful and you could even hand him your ATM card and he’ll still do you dirty when he hits it big.
See, some guys don’t even wait to hammer before they start to misbehave. You’ll be funding him, and he’ll be using your own money to cheat on you.
This is the kind of stuff that happens, guys.
Let’s just hope it doesn’t happen to you.